Every choice you make in life is based on two motivators - hope for gain and fear of loss. Think about the most important decisions you made in your life. Your choice to get married or stay single. Your choice to divorce or remain married. Your career. Children vs. no children. Everything.
The challenge is to understand how these motivators work in your life and make wise decisions. What do you hope to gain in your life? And what do you fear losing? Depending on what you've done so far and where you've been, you may find your hopes and fears changing. What are your thoughts?